An essential how-to for the beginner!
Apart from all the pleasures which SEA holds for us the most asked about are the Good Girls, also known as Straight Girls, Non-Pros, Nice Girls. These, for most of us are strange and unknown species of the female population is one of the best kept secret of SEA.
Because of the great demand on this topic I am willing to bring a little light into the darkness that surrounds these mystical creatures. Everything you read here is the result of long and dangerous expeditions into the hostile areas of the Good Girl Land.
One last warning this subject is highly addictive. You may find yourself loosing your interest in the professional side of the game faster than you might like. You are warned.
First chapter: Where to find them
This is the first and for the inexperienced newbie most of the times already impassable barricade. Where the hell does this rare and shy bead hide? How often did you go on the hunt after them in any possible GoGo-Bar, Massage Parlous or even BJ-Bar. But all the “Good Girls” there turned out to be rather Professionals. So here is the first actually pretty unknown secret I will drag into the Light of the Day.
There are everywhere except the above mentioned entertainment venues. Yes, unbelievable, butGirl on MRT in Singapore true. In every shopping mall, on the sky train, even in every ordinary street you will actually find them, just take some time and observe carefully. Sometimes it can be scary but suddenly you feel surrounded by them as there is no escape. But now you know, the trick is simply to leave the ghetto of paid sex and venture into the realms of the ordinary people. It may shock most of you but believe me, they are there and they are plenty. By the way the preferred time of their activities is in the plain Daylight. So get up early.
Second chapter: Against the wind or why do they always know what I am up to?
So now that you know where to find them and you managed to be around at noon in some say shopping mall 
for example and you see in amazement how many females are actually on the loose at this time of day. And believe me most of them are straight girls. But unfortunately they seem not to be very keen on getting to know you. Some how they seem to smell that you are perhaps not that decent about your future plans with certain body parts of theirs. So I will solve this riddle for you. Am I great or what? Just go in any cloth shop, look for the next mirror and walk up to him. Now take a close look at what you see. So what you see? A 45-65 old, slightly overweight white guy with maybe not enough hair? Right, but wrong all the same. These facts are not relevant first of all these are things you simply can not change so why bother? Remember you are in Asia, if you can’t change it, ignore it. It doesn’t matter how old or bald or heavy you are, but there is something else that you should be aware of. You are in SEA, so what is more important the look on the surface or your inner values? Yep, I am sorry to say but your inner values are not that important, you will never get a chance to show them when your looks are everything but “nice“. To not scare the Good Girls away you need camouflage, just like every hunter on earth.
So take a second look in the mirror and then you maybe see the real reason why you are always spotted as a typical punter. You look like one. So you are there, a grown up guy, maybe in a big city and what do you wear? Some shorts who look like your grandpa was wearing them when he scared with them the Krauts to death in World War I. A muscle T-shirt which reviles a lot of what should better stay hidden in the day of Light and some worn out sandals of cause without socks and a cheap copy of once expensive sunglasses who are out of fashion for about 20 years. Do you really think that any half decent woman will appreciate your style of clothing in any way? By the way drop your half empty beer can in the next ashtray, you look somehow better without. Now close your eyes and think of this guy at your high school, I mean the one who never get any date with a girl because his mommy always supplied him with a never ending stream of “nice” clothes. The kind of neat and proper shirts, trousers and white socks nobody would wear who wanted to be cool in any way. But as strange at it sounds this is exactly the way to pretend that you are not here for women and booze, just a regular nice guy, a guy the Good Girls are actually interested in. So dress yourself clean, proper and neat.
Nothing fancy is required, just the kind of stuff your mother wanted to wear you when you were 15 years old. And if you already around there look for some very, very nice shoes because they are very important signs, for the usually shy prey, that you are a somehow decent guy. Now you look like mommies dearest, right? Every girl in your neighborhood at home will laugh at you? Fine, that is exactly the way to go. The only thing you should consider is a, again, nice haircut, something that fit with your new appearance as mommy dearest. One hour ago you looked like a guy who never get out of the well known red-light areas in his life and now you can be taken for a regular guy who happens to be in SEA for what purposes ever perhaps a Businessman, perhaps a retired expat, who knows? Your camouflage is nearly perfect.
Third Chapter: Method Acting for Good Girl Hunters
So now that your looks fit pretty well the requirement of a Good Girl, we have to work on your behaviors. First for heavens sake smile ifGirls on the North-east MRT line you don’t smile laugh. It is hard, I know, but try it when you want to succeed. If you look like you actually enjoy yourself, other will much more likely want to take part in the good mood you are up to. It may result in some unwanted attention, like other tourist will start to ask you about something because they think you are living there, or some Business guy want to start discussing the economy’s with you. But most of them they are pleasant people who just want to communicate with your new ego. Strange isn’t it? And if they want to talk with you perhaps one of the pretty ladies would be interested to, after all they are just human.
Hey, you are on the right way, buddy. Go on. And here comes the next important advice which is a good kept secret, only know by a few illuminated guys. But I will tell you straight away: Go alone. I know it is fun to hang out with your buddies in the bar and making some fuss. But if you ever want to get near your aim of desire stay on your own. You simply don’t look too dangerous when you are alone. Most of the regular female population will not feel scared when they see that you are alone. So be brave and go alone, with a bit of luck you won’t stay alone for too long. Another big issue is never, never show up with a BG (Bar Girl) in your company this is the biggest mistake you can make. Separate your naughty life from your proper life. This is essential. They smell a BG ten miles away against the wind and they will remember about you and your Lady-night. Game Over. The next thing you should obey is the difference between funny talk and bull****. Everyone loves to have a nice and funny conversation, but nobody wants to be bull****ed especially the girls like to laugh, but please if you want to make stupid jokes, why not about yourself? Most of them will recognize pretty fast if you think you can tell them plain nonsense, they will think that you take them for stupid. Bad move, you are out of the game faster than you can say sorry. Remember these girls don’t get paid to laugh about your jokes they have to be funny in some way. After we have straighten this out (I repeat: have a nice attitude, go alone, take them serious) now what to do when you are out there in the concrete jungle and on the outlook to catch on of these timid creatures.
My advice would be to do as less as possible. It sounds strange but a very slow approach will be the one with the most promising results. In some cases a straight forward attack may be in order but that is the case when you came across some merchandising or similar events where some cute girls take part in. Normally a very soft approach is far better or why not let make her the first move? You just have to make up a situation where she feels secure enough to start the communication first. If she is a sales lady or a waitress it’s pretty easy to get in contact, just show up at her shop/restaurant on a regular base, sooner or later she will notice you and then get curious what you are up to. Bingo. So hanging around in Shopping malls is not the worst thing to do, you would be surprised what happens there from time to time. So be prepared, when you at least expect it, you suddenly find yourself eye to eye with one maybe two of the legendary creatures we call Good Girls. And what to do when the night falls and nothing happened at all? Well, your new ego will work pretty well with the p4p-girls, but be carefully, you’re biggest problem will be how to get them out of your room the next morning so you can venture into Good-Girl-Land again.
